Monday, October 27, 2025

Plymouth Boys & Girls Club Will Offer Character Development Program

 

At the Boys & Girls Club of Plymouth, our mission calls upon us to inspire and enable all young people, especially those who need us most, to achieve great futures as productive, caring, and responsible citizens. Our priority programs emphasize academic success, good character and citizenship, and healthy lifestyles.  Accordingly, we have embarked on a new program with an emphasis on Character Development and Citizenship as our mission statement requires.

We will establish clear expectations, promote open communication, and foster a sense of belonging.  In our daily interactions with Club members, we instill a sense of belonging, a sense of usefulness, a sense of competence, and a sense of upward influence in their Club.  Each of these goals with youngsters supports the essence of Character Development.

We will mentor our young members to apply their learning to real-life situations, such as volunteering, random acts of kindness, and taking on responsibility.  One of our leadership techniques is to have "the bigs instruct the littles."  This is also a way to help develop character with our teens and middle-schoolers.

Character building programs foster ethical values, positive behaviors, and responsible citizenship in individuals, particularly in the Club setting.  Our program will offer positive reinforcement by recognizing and praising positive character traits and actions to help reinforce desired behaviors. Our staff will help members build resilience by focusing on developing the skills needed to overcome challenges and setbacks, which are essential for character development. Staff will also concentrate on specific character traits like trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship. These traits are commonly referred to as the Six Pillars of Character.

The character development framework includes Self-Awareness: the ability to recognize emotions, values, strengths, and limitations.

The framework also includes Self-Management: the ability to manage behaviors to achieve personal goals.

Another element is Responsible Decision Making: the ability to make constructive choices. Social Awareness is the ability to show understanding and, perhaps most importantly, empathy. The final element of the framework focuses on Relationship Skills, which include the ability to form relationships, work in teams, and deal with conflict constructively.

We intend to rely on narratives of individuals who demonstrated exceptional courage and character to inspire members. The Club will provide opportunities for students to practice making ethical decisions in a safe and controlled environment.

Beyond encouraging members to think critically about different perspectives and values, we will emphasize one outstanding practice that fosters members' support and encouragement for one another.  This program will engage students in community service activities that promote empathy and social responsibility.

Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidate Essay 6

"Coming to the Club every day has helped me change my attitude about school completely. I haven't been the greatest student in the past, but since coming to the Club, I have started to get more serious. The staff have been really helpful in helping me find mew ways to study and help with homework. It;s been really great to have all of their support, and I have come a long way because of it."

-Damon H.

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidate Essay 5

"With all of the work that I have done, the effort I have put in, and the years of learning and maturing at the Club, I can say that I am a better person because of it. The Club has helped me grow and be a more positive role model for others. I enjoy coming to the Club and spending time hanging out with friends and working with kids here. All of the time I have spent here, and the experiences I have had, has made this place a second home to me."

-Matt S.

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidate Essay 4

".... I can remember going to the Boys and Girls Club to go pick up my brother and I would ask my mom when I could start to go cause it looks like fun. In my many years at  the Boys & Girls Club, I have been blessed to receive intelligent guidance from the staff and other club members. I like the fact the club is diverse and you get to learn new things about different people. The staff members made sure that no feels ashamed of who they are. My mother has  thought of me to be strong and to stand up for those who cannot stand up for themselves. No, I am not perfect myself. My grades are not perfect but I am working hard everyday, well some days more than others but I am still working hard. I have and still receive help from the staff at the Boys & Girls Club."

-Jayquan L.

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidate Essay 3

"...as I got older, I found myself getting into trouble a little bit more. One day I got in trouble for being disrespectful and was sent to talk to the Executive Director, Garreth. I was upset during our conversation and I remember asking him, "why do you like running this place?" Garreth told me something I will never forget. He said, "I don't run the Club. The kids do, the members so. I just keep everything going". I didn't really get into trouble after that, and if I did, I would usually go talk to Jarrod or Tim (staff at the Club), who would always help calm me down."

-Sebastian B.

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidates Essay 2

This is an excerpt from another Youth of the Year candidate:

"I have enjoyed coming to the Club since my very first day there. I enjoy going because the counselors are always there to talk when I need and my friends are always there when I walk in. I think about it as a place where you can make new friends and feel at home. The Club has given me so many experiences and memories over the years. My life is so much better thanks to everything I have done with the Club."

"...thanks to all of the relationships I have formed over the years, I still attend the Club today. I remember I was in elementary school, I was getting bullied by some people in my class. When I would get to the Club, I would find myself confiding in the counselors. When I did homework at the Club, I would take longer than most kids. One counselor would sit down with me and help me with it until I was done. The counselors there are always there to help me, whether it was the problems at school or with school work".

-Rachel F.

Excerpt from a Youth of the Year Candidate Essay 1

The following is an excerpt from one of our candidates essays for Youth of the Year:


"Some days my Dad would come home and of course he would be tired and he probably did want to just sit down and watch some T.V. but he still managed to make 10-20 minutes of time to just throw a ball around or have a jump rope competition. Even at the Boys & Girls Club, there are great adult role models. This one counselor there, Jarrod, probably one of the best basketball players I have ever played with, he would always be willing to work with me on my shot or something that I wanted to understand or do basketball wise. Sometimes it would be 6:00 p.m., an hour before the Club closes, almost everyone would be gone but he still helped me work on my spin move or just play one on one with me. I wouldn't lead this active lifestyle if I didn't have these great role models in my life."

-Dhruvil S.